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 Post subject: need advice about my mariage
PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 10:24 am 

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im married to turkish guy and he treat me really bad not hurting me but oral violence by yelling insulting and making scandals in our neighbourhood. My problem with him is communication, we never communicate like normal people from nothing he makes problems. he never says sorry. and its me always that come and try to make up. and lately he start threaten me by divorce not once not twice. i try to succeess this mariage but if its not possible i need your advice plz. i was thinking of going to lawyer to know all my rights. i dont have children. i lost foetus once because of the stress that he makes.

i want to know also the prices of lawyers here

i need to know my rights plz and how it funtion and he will take care of me here or how. it has been 1 year 7 month since we married and we married in my country but of course i have now the red book and ikamet,im registered in sgk .....

i want to know is he able to divorce me without my permission because once he brought divorce paper and he asked me to sign it of course i refused

plz i need your help and thank you so much

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 Post subject: Re: need advice about my mariage
PostPosted: Fri Nov 09, 2012 5:53 pm 

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Sorry to hear about your situation.
There are two ways of divorce as far as I know. The easy way is both sides sign a petition, stating that they want to divorce and they agree on it. I think he wanted to make you sign a petition like this.
If you don't sign it, he has to choose the not so easy way.

The hard way is he has to open a case in the court . Then court sends you an invitation. After that I don't know what happens but I guess that it is long process.

About the not being able to communicate part, I can't say much. All I can say is, if he had not loved you, why would he go all the trouble of getting ikamet, sgk etc . Why would he consider having a baby ?

There must be something disturbing your relationship. Try to find it and resolve it by not blaming each other.
I hope this helps.

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 Post subject: Re: need advice about my mariage
PostPosted: Tue Aug 18, 2015 9:06 am 

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so have you fix this issue? it is really sorry to hear about that. and i think communication and trust is the main problem in married life. i advised you to always consult professional lawyer in such type of issues

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