I've been with my Turkish boyfriend for 6 1/2 years. Yes, I am older than him and not Turkish. I have met his sister and his cousin, but not his brother and his family. He has been promising for at least 4 years to introduce me to his parents, but it never happens.

In the beginning he said that Turkish culture says you don't meet the parents until you announce your engagement. Well, he proposed to me 4 months ago and I said yes, but still I have yet to meet them!

Also, he said when I got my own apartment that he would move in within a month, then when I got all my furniture, then after he saw what would happen with his new job, but still he hasn't moved in.

I feel like I'm being had, but really???? after 6 1/2 years? He never mentions wanting to go to my home country, so he is not with me for a green card. '

I'm so confused!!!! I don't know what to do...leave him? Stay and see what happens???

Any insight???? Anyone have experience in this area?

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